So you are trying to become better at the art of seducing women right? You are on the right track if you are seeking for info. Knowledge is power and not so long ago, i was just a average frustrated chump without seduction knowledge. I was what you could call a nice guy. In this article i will show you some steps you must take in order to succeed with women and be the next casanova.
The first thing you must know is that women are emotional beings. Women operate in a 20% logic and 80% emotional. So you will never hit them with your logical side. This is one of the key secrets in the seduction game. Always appeal to their emotional side. Women barely make any logical decision. And thats the good thing for us. If you could just trigger the right emotional buttons inside a woman, no matter how ugly, stupid or fat you are, you are in the game. But of course, not all of us know how to trigger these buttons.
Of course, i am not saying that you dont to take care of your looks and appearance. Thats very important, if you dont have a unique style and personality your journey will be a lot thougher. But thats only a part of the game. No matter how handsome you are, if you act nervous and weird near pretty girls, you are history. Thats it. So stick it in your mind that the inner game is much more important than your looks. I bet you can tell several cases in your city where you have seen beatiful girls hanging with you can call ugly man.
But you see, these so called ugly man have something special. If you observe them closely, you will see that they act diferently that most men. They are confident. They lead the way. They are bold and fast. they have supreme confidence. They dont get nervous around any kind of girl, because they know that he can get any girl he wants, no matter his looks. And thats the key of seduction, if you appear to be confident, every women near you will notice and will want to know you better. Its instinctive. Its withing her genes. Women always seek shelther and protection, and the most confident man, in her eyes, is the man who can provide it to her.
So, from now on, change your frameset of mind. Never think yourself again as unworthy or inferior to woman. See yourself as the alpha male among men. See yourself as the most confident man in the planet. Of course, dont forget to take care of your appearance but the most important thing is your inner game. Now come on, the girls are waiting for you….
To become a master seducer, you must have a plan. For everything in life, if you start without a nice and elaborated plan, you are planning your failure. For seducing women, its no different. So in this article i will share several killer tips to serve as a guideline to impress and hopefully date that wonderful women you are attracted to.
1. Make sure you have supreme confidende: Without confidence, man becomes a weak creature. It just seems something is lacking. You become boring, tedious and sometimes weird. Its within our genes. Why do you think that the most successful people on the world are very confident in their actions? Because confidence leads to success. Do you see any millionaire acting like a nerd or shy guy? Hell no! Because they know that a confident and positive attitude attract more success.
2.Dont focus on your weaknesses: Dont every bring of the subject of your weaknesses. Everybody is good and bad at something, but in the beginning of the seduction game, make sure you only show your strong points. Nobody needs to know about your physical imperfections or something like that. For some reason, some men believe that talking about some physical imperfection is good make a woman laugh, and they are right, but she will be laughing at you, not with you.
3. Keep a organized record: If you want to have success with women, you must analyze and catalog every situation you have with women. Keep a record of all your dates and set daily, weekly and monthly goals. Being organized and setting golas is a know factor to improve any ability. To seduce women is no different. If you have a organized record of all your dates, you will be able to test different approaches and see the one that is more successful.
4. Follow your estabilished plan: Making a plan is good. But following it is even better. I must stress it. You must actually follow your plan, and test new approaches. If you decide to test a new technique, test it for a few days until you have enough records to make a trusted decision. Dont just stop because its becoming hard or just for procrastination. You must take action otherwise failure will be your friend.
I hope you liked these guidelines. These are simple but very powerful. I always follow them and they have helped me tremendously in my game with women.Follow them and definitly you will be next to your goal of seducing women and finally have the love life you always dreamed of.
Are you a great guy with a lot to offer a woman but have no luck in getting women to talk to you let alone go out with you? Do you need a roadmap to understanding women and what attracts them?
Women have become really hard to impress these days. Men can feel intimidated. If you are single and trying to attract women, there are some things you can do that will help you out.
You need to feel confident in yourself. Nothing attracts woman more then self-confidence. Really. A woman wants a man who is sure of himself and acts that way. I do not mean arrogant, I mean self confident. If you feel that you are worthless, you will give off that impression with you actions and body language and that is NOT a feature that women find attractive. Think about it, is the girl sitting alone at the end of the bar who is not smiling, will not make eye contact and when approached has nothing to say a woman you want to be with? Of course not. However, that same woman sitting alone at the bar who is smiling, looking around and if approached, begins a conversation with you, is someone most en would be interested in getting to know. The same holds true for men. Body language speaks louder then words in most situation. You need to portray self confidence if you want to attract women. Self confidence will create an instant attraction.
There is also something to be said for the copycat. Do you know someone who always seems to get the girl? Watch and observe him on your next guys night out. What does he do differently then you? Does he have any traits that are easily copied? I do not mean pick-up lines. I mean, how does he stand? How does he interact with the women he approaches? If you can model yourself after someone who is successful, you are much more likely to be successful yourself.
Take your cues also from body language. If your friend holds himself a certain way and does certain things and it works for him, copying him will most likely bring you success as well. Body language can sometimes speak louder then words in attracting women.
You can also use humor and laughter to attract women. You need to do this the right way however or risk turning women off. Itis a delicate balance. If you can find this balance, you will be very successful. I do not know a single women who does not want a man who can make her laugh. For some women, it can be the first thing that attracts her to a man. A great sense of humor and the ability to convey that is very important.
Here is how you can attract women with a little bit of small talk. Attracting women and getting them to talk to you is easy if you know how to use the conversation starter. Conversation starters work well to get women attracted enough to indulge in a conversation with you. Here we will see as to how you can attract women with some good use of your tongue:
1. THE best thing which works in your favor is a nice smile, an eye contact and a direct “hi”
2. If you see a girl reading a book, say if it is the latest Harry Potter book or a John Grisham novel, you can exclaim,” wow, that is my favorite too” Get her interested about a certain character if you have read the book but do not tell her more. Also if possible talk to her about the other book from some other books. Take it from there to other topics.
3. Suppose you see a girl at a party wearing something unusual. Say something unusual which will attract her attention. Tell her that it is very attractive and it is irresistible. Make her know that it compliments her outfit perfectly. You may even ask her where she got it from. She will be pleased to tell you more about her broach.
4. Have you ever noticed the sales girls and telephone receptionists?. They are bored of doing the same dreary job. They want a man to liven them, to cheer them and make them feel special. You can do a good job at it. You can just say that you are shopping for a neat outfit for your sister. Ask her which would be an ideal according to her. She will definitely help her out, it is her job and you ofcourse can talk about other nice things in life along with the dress. Again if you see a nice cute shopping for a pair of dainty skirts, smile her and greet her. Before she knows what hit her, tell her that you have quite a dumb taste compared as far as women’s’ outfits are concerned. Tell her that you cannot figure out an ideal pair of jeans or whatever which would suit your sister or friend. She will not mind helping you choose what she thinks is a good outfit. Similarly you can perk up the telephone receptionist by talking about the traveling bit, and praising her about how she manages to keep cool even though she has to handle a lot of persky, irritating calls. Compliment on her outfit or any other feature that stands out(not the naughty part!, not yet!)
5. Ask her what the time is. This is the most clichéd opening line but still it works. But be sure that you do not flash your cellphone at that time.
6. Ask her for directions. She would definitely be happy to help you with finding the directions. Very soon she will be providing directions to her heart.
7. If you are in a music CD shop and you see a girl, ask her if she could help her with some good tracks.
8. Girls love art and forms of creation. So, if you are a museum and spot a girl looking at an art form, you can go close to her and look at the splendid creation. When she is within an earshot, utter a few words about the painting or pass an odd comment. Ask her, “What do you think?” She will be glad to offer her views. Then you can spend time disagreeing with her views as you open the door of her heart.
9. If you see a girl at a beach, ask her if she knows to build castles.
10. . You can ask a devout churchgoing girl what time the worship is or if she would be around for the feast day.
11. Your neighbor might be one real hot number. But that should not stop you from going and asking her, “do you know what time is the 70s show?”
12. Fancy your teacher whom you have major crush on. No sweat. Go to her and say that you have some doubts which want to be cleared.
13. . If you see a girl in the garden, comment on the weather, the green grass etc….say that you love the smell of the rain, doesn’t you?
14. If you ever see a girl (lonely) in a theatre, tell her about your views on the movie. Not but don’t sound boring or nerdy. A comment in a humorous form will break the ice faster. Something like tell her, you know what was my favorite part in the movie….I simply loved The End.
15. Wear a whatzit. Whenever you go to a gathering, wear or carry something unusual to give people who find you the excuse to approach. If you want to be noticed, wear something unusual. Things like a cool braclet, a cute looking pendant or a funky pair of glasses, anything that stands out stylishly but not gaudy.
16. If you see a gorgeous girl at a party, ask the host to make the introduction or pump him for few facts that you can immediately turn into ice breakers.
17. Imagine a bevy of girls and guys talking and chatting away to a glory at a pub. You want to speak to that lovely brunette who is sitting amongst the group. She has taken your breath away. You are attracted to this sexy cute woman who is nothing but a stranger. How do you do you make your move. Eavesdrop. Let’s assume they are talking about a trip. You can quip in and say that you couldn’t help overhearing what they were talking. Say that you are also planning to go to the same place. Ask them for suggestions about the place, lodge, hotel or accommodation to stay there while taking the trip. As you say this, there will be a small fraction of a silence. You have entered their territory. Will they be taken aback? Somewhat. Momentarily. Will they get over it? Will you be party to her conversation? Absolutely!
18. Break the ice…go to her with a lump of ice. Break it in front of her and say, “Now that we’ve broken the ice. Can we be friends?” Eccentric but sexy! She will remember it because it will be straight out of a cute romantic movie for her.
19. When the object of your interest is topic animatedly, compliment her and endorse her. Say: That’s right. Rephrase what she has just said in another manner. C’mon you can do that!
20. Tell her, “I am writing a book on Dating Women. What is your take on it? Any tips?”
For most men, seducing a woman is pretty much a foreign thing to them. You may think of seducing a woman as only reserved for guys that dress like rock stars or that have smooth lines and a lot of money, but any guy can learn the art of seduction and become very successful with women. There are some things that you have to know when it comes to seducing a woman.
One of these is that you have to know your role in seducing a woman.
You are supposed to lead. Think of seducing a woman as like a dance. The man is the ones that is supposed to lead. When it comes to seduction, this means that you should be the one that is in control at all times. You shouldn’t be the one that is passive and always seeking her approval.
This may sound a little chauvinistic, but it’s not.
I’m not saying that you should act like a jerk. But you should have the confidence in yourself to be a little more in control. You should choose the place where you go if you are taking her out and you should lead the seduction. If you want to take her to a table after meeting at a bar, you should take her by the hand and lead her to the table.
Right off the bat, you should show that you ARE an alpha male.
If you can do this, you will be able to guarantee that she never thinks of you as being just a friend. You have to be less of a friend to her and more of a guy that she wants to date and also sleep with. In time, you can become her friend, but when you meet or are just starting to date, you want to be the one who leads.
